Repatriation, day 3
Jun. 2nd, 2010 01:40 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
qatarperegrinePeople know to expect culture shock when they move abroad. They're generally less prepared to experience it when they move back home, because home is home, right? Only when you experience something that changes you, like living abroad (or going to college) then you can't just come back home and expect everything to be the same as it was.
So, like I documented my first impressions of Qatar when I moved there 6 years ago, I'm going to try to document some of my first impressions of the US now I'm back.
Observations from 3 days back in the States, in no particular order:
So, like I documented my first impressions of Qatar when I moved there 6 years ago, I'm going to try to document some of my first impressions of the US now I'm back.
Observations from 3 days back in the States, in no particular order:
- SO much foliage! And weeds! Plants grow BY THEMSELVES unless you actively STOP THEM!
- It makes me so happy just to see pedestrians and joggers out and about. It somehow gives neighborhoods a much more "community" feel, which is odd since it's not like the pedestrians are communing with each other.
- Way, WAY more people have tattoos than I remember.
- Shopkeepers and other service-type people are friendly. Even the ones processing our driver's license renewal paperwork. I remember noticing, when I moved back to the US from London, that Americans seem to want friendly service while Britain seems to favor polite service. I'd say service in Qatar tends towards obsequious.
- For some reason Americans don't know how to make a plane take off on time. Why is this?
- It's weird sitting in a restaurant and understanding what the people at the next table are saying. You have to TRY not to eavesdrop.
- Most of the shops I've gone in here have been playing music I liked. On the other hand, many of them have also had a TV blaring. TV is worse than I remember.
- Fresh fruit, on the other hand, is way better than I remember.
- I'm totally out of touch with American fashion. WHY are the 80s back?
- SO MANY BOOKS in the bookstore!
- Nobody's called me "ma'am" all week, let alone "ma'amsir." And I don't get the royal treatment for being pregnant, whereas in Doha being pregnant allows you to skip all lines everywhere.
- I am for sure in the "honeymoon" stage of reentry. I know that American culture has lots of downsides that I will encounter soon. But I'm enjoying the honeymoon while it lasts. :-)
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Date: 2010-06-01 10:56 pm (UTC)It is true! It is a mystery!
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Date: 2010-06-01 11:08 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-06-01 11:13 pm (UTC)But maybe that was the year it was like 1968, I'm not sure. There was an awful lot of psychedelic paisley involved.
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Date: 2010-06-06 11:29 pm (UTC)I may just abandon this LJ with this name and start a new one for non-Qatar stuff, though... haven't decided.
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Date: 2010-06-04 05:25 pm (UTC)On the flip side, it would definitely be remarkable if you /didn't/ find anything good about returning to America ... why don't we only bother talking about the "missing honeymoon stage" of culture shock? This is my proposal.
YT
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Date: 2010-06-04 11:27 pm (UTC)Not sure what you mean about the missing honemoon stage?
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Date: 2010-06-22 10:39 am (UTC)As for my proposal, it's simple. I took "Honeymoon Stage" to mean a period of time where you're relatively frequently noticing many good things (and not what you wrote above). And since that really does happen to nearly everyone, and tells us nothing about anything, it's incredibly boring. But if people were to return home and discover /nothing good about it/, that "Missing Honeymoon Stage" would be interesting.
-YT
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Date: 2010-06-22 03:25 pm (UTC)I see what you mean about missing honeymoon stage now. I think that was sorta what I was getting at. I've had lots of friends come back to the US expecting things to be dreamy and then it takes them by surprise when they're irritated by things. So I guess I threw the honeymoon stage thing in there at the end to say that I intended to follow up the post with another one about the downsides of coming home. So far, though, I'm still too damn happy. :-) My only complaints so far are that the bookstores close too early (9! It's not even dark out at 9!) and that my best friend is now in a really inconvenient time zone. ;-)
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Date: 2016-12-23 11:56 am (UTC)Honeymoon stage!
Date: 2010-06-06 07:28 pm (UTC)haha
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