Here's the other Zen story told as counterpoint to the abbot-being-run-through-with-a-sword one I mentioned the other day.
"A Zen master ... cried when his son died. ...
His students said, 'Didn't you tell us that death is normal and inevitable? That everything is impermanent?'
The Zen master said, 'It is, and I'm still sad.'"
"A Zen master ... cried when his son died. ...
His students said, 'Didn't you tell us that death is normal and inevitable? That everything is impermanent?'
The Zen master said, 'It is, and I'm still sad.'"